
For more than 5 years she has operated the relocated academy, seeing membership swell to 80 students of all ages and skill levels. The classes are conducted in age groups, led by Sensie Wendy and Sensei Elijah, her son. Those teachings include self-defense but Kessler refers to it more as “defense of self” meaning that one objective is to instill confidence in people.

Her alternative approach to teaching martial arts involves the entire self, not just the physical skills. “With self-confidence people have the courage to stand up for their values and not to worry about other people’s opinions of them. We focus on skills needed for not only self-defense, but life skills that enhance social, emotional and academic development.”

Kessler, a state-employee during the day, says that one of the principles of Uechi-Ryu is to assume the likelihood that you may get hit first. “So we toughen up the body, to absorb the blow,” while teaching the mind to discover that you are not broken after an attack. “learn to be comfortable getting hit.” Then the training and confidence will allow for a calm counterstrike.








